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Stones or Beatles?

by Tamsen | September 9th, 2009

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Quick: what’s your answer? We (Tamsen and Matt) have been tossing this question around quite a bit lately, and we think it reveals a lot.

Stones or Beatles? So strong are our associations with both that no one ever thinks we’re asking about rocks and insects. The names are shared symbols, soundtracks to individual memories. You hear the White Album’s spine crack, the Sticky Fingers’ zipper growl. You hear teenage angst, one-night-stands, love lost and found. You hear the music of an era, and music for the ages.

Stones or Beatles? It’s tempting to hedge the question. The bad boys, or the dreamers? The interpreters or the creators? Some people will tell you it depends on their mood. Or the albums in question. Some answer with a different band entirely (Matt usually answers with The Beach Boys, others say Elvis, others The Dead).

But when pressed, most people have a firm opinion one way or another.

Stones or Beatles? Tamsen discovered quite by accident that Matt likes to use this as an interview question (quite by accident because Matt informed her she passed without ever having actually asked her the question…). Being a fan of unexpected questions, Tamsen has since been asking it a lot: on Facebook (where it kind of blends in to the random quizzes and apps), on Twitter (where it got more answers than any other status update she posted), at the Gravity Summit Tweetup (where it was so popular that others started asking it, even to MC Hammer [Stones]).

It’s a question people love to answer because it’s public and personal at once: everyone has an opinion, but everyone comes to that opinion in their own way.

Stones or Beatles? Most people haven’t consciously prepared their answer. So, when you ask it, you get an answer shaped by who they are and how they see themselves. To Matt, the question reveals both a person’s affinity for and knowledge of music (something he values pretty much above all else) and whether or not, in his eyes, that person is a “thinker [Beatles] or a feeler [Stones].”

To Tamsen, the answer (though interesting) is only the start of the story. She likes to ask why someone made the choice they made, which in turn reveals frames of reference: those who cite coolness value status, those who cite creators vs. interpreters value approach to ideas, those who talk about who’d be more fun to see value experiences.

In other words, your understanding of someone’s answer is inexorably shaped by your own.

Stones or Beatles? Yes, it’s possible to overthink this, and we have. But it’s still fun to ask—and interpret.

So…Stones or Beatles?
(And why?)

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